But can EI be taught?
Some critics argue that you cannot teach ‘soft’ skills like listening. The argument generally goes that someone lacking in EI cannot suddenly be taught on a 2-day course that they should start listening to other people’s opinions.
It is difficult to change ourselves, but it is usually more of a challenge to actually accept we might need to change. Teaching EI starts with self-awareness. EI training cannot promise miracles, but it can put participants on the path to self-awareness and change.
How? Firstly by helping participants reflect on their behaviour and by gauging the feedback of others. People can develop self-awareness through self-assessment tools, exercises and coaching. And then with commitment people can consciously behave and think differently.
So, while academics continue in their quest to put EI to the test, work places are becoming increasingly aware of the benefits that this ‘fact, fiction or fad’ is bringing to their culture.
As the research into EI continues, more and more competencies are beginning to appear under the EI umbrella. We don’t dispute that these are associated with EI, but if you go back to the definition “The ability to understand and manage your own emotions and understand and manage the emotions of others” then the primary focus of any EI program needs to focus here.
How we are different
“If only I had changed myself first, then by example I could have changed my family. From their inspiration and encouragement, I would have been able to better my country and, who knows, I may have even changed the world”. (Extract from the testament on the tomb on an Anglo-Saxon Bishop circa 1100AD.)
The above statement summarises our approach to EI training. Our programs are designed to not only show people what to change, but more importantly how to change on both an emotional and cognitive level. Our scientifically based programs have proven that our approach delivers long term improvements to participants’ day-to-day abilities and motivation for success.
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